I am so sorry to hear about your grandmother. I just lost my own Grandma Jeanne a few months ago at age 88 (her, not me).
She was an intelligent, opinionated woman--a writer, artist, and peace activist who traveled extensively and lived life to the fullest.
We thought she would have appreciated that we put a completely false item in her obituary, saying that she had been a child vaudeville star under the name "Baby Jeannie, the Living Doll"!
My warmest thoughts are with you and your family; you were indeed lucky to have such a person to grow up knowing.